4-1-17 Smile, Love & Appreciate..our lives are different but that’s okay..be the best YOU you can be anyways!!

As this week was spent with family and friends remembering our loved one and others that have already passed away we shared many stories of both good and bad times.  But, we also found ourselves being surrounded with the constant negatives, drama and soul draining complaints by our loved ones being miserable, worrying over the unknowns of  the future, of gossiping about others, of the complaints about their lives and those around them, we were asked for advice numerous times and more often than not asked what we knew, what we had heard and were constantly surrounded and felt as though they were attempting to suck us in to the negatives that they thrive on!!! 

It is amazing to me that they want the best of everything , they want happiness like my husband and I have, they want more out of life but yet are unwilling to change, to try new things, to try and change their surrounds, to try to be positive and to see the Good within their lives with the blessings that they already have but yet they are unwilling to change their negative ways, they are so unwilling and close minded to see how easy it is to start seeing the Good Within Their Lives!!  It really saddens me and hurts my heart and soul!!

This is part of why my husband and I moved a year ago once we became emptynesters….we wanted more and we wanted to distance ourselves from all of the negativity….we wanted to leave it all behind us.  All I can do now is Love Them Unconditionally, be here for them and help them as best I possibly can…..all I can do is encourage them and try to guide them into more positive and happy thoughts but ONLY if and when they ask for it…..All I Can Do Is Live My Life To Be The Happiest, The Most Positive And The Most Life Loving Person That I Can Be!!  Where do you fit into any of my above scenario, are you a complainer and negative or are you the Happy Life Loving Person?!?!?!  Do what makes YOU Happy, surround yourself with Positive People who bring out the best in you and Live Your Life even if you have to distance yourself from loved ones in order to be the Best Person You Can Be!!!  Thanks for Reading my Thoughts…….Robin Robinson

Happy, Sad, Negative, Angry, Grateful, Blessed…..Where do you fit in?

I wish more people could realize how truly Blessed they are. We need more Happy People in this World to help Heal, to Spread more Love and Kindness, to help make Positive Changes, to Show Others How to Love not Hate and to just make every day more Pleasant!! More people need to realize that it is THEY/YOU themselves that are creating their/your own misery, negativity and ugliness around them/you.

WAKE UP People!! YOU Control your own Happiness and it is up to YOU and ONLY YOU on how YOU Act & React to People and Situations…it is up to YOU and ONLY YOU to see the Good within the Bad and to Overcome and Conquer….it is up to YOU and ONLY YOU to Be Grateful and to See and Find Your Blessings in Everyday Life….it is up to YOU and ONLY YOU to determine How YOU Shall be!!!

I know that not everyone is happy all day or even everyday, I know that being Happy is Not always easy, I know some people hate their lives….but who’s fault is it?!  We ALL have choices so don’t blame or take YOUR Choices out on others!  YOUR Happiness, Misery, Negativity & Hatred ALL comes from within You and it is up to YOU and ONLY YOU to Change Anything that is causing anything Less than Happiness, Positivity and Love.

If YOU are unHappy, WHY?  If YOU are so unHappy that you are bitter and negative all the time or more than you would like, have you ever stopped to think and realize that despite Your unHappiness that YOU are still truly Blessed and have things to be Grateful for?!

YOUR Life may not be as you had planned, You may be struggling financially, You may have lost a loved one, You may not have reached your goals……but do you have a place to rest your head at night, do you have food to eat, do you have a way to make money even if only a little from time to time, do you have more than a set of clothes to wear?  These are just a few examples of things to be Grateful For that are being taken for Granted everyday…….but Everyday someone out there doesn’t have some of these things, whom doesn’t have 1/2 of what You do and is obviously Worse Off than You but yet manages to find the Good in Life and has Learned to Be Happy because they Cannot Control Everything in Life but they Can Control Themselves and Choose to Be Happy which helps to Make a Better Life!  Have you Ever thought about what Good YOU have in YOUR Life and Not just the negatives and what you don’t have?!?!

YOUR Life and Happiness is up to YOU, so why Not make the most of it and learn to see more of the Positives than the negatives within Your Life and what’s around you?!?!  Why NOT Improve YOUR Quality of YOUR Life and the Life Around you?!?!  Why NOT Spread Happiness and Love instead of Negativity and Hate?!?!

Some deep thoughts running through my head as sadness, hatred and negativity saddens me so, and if I could help just one person to be Happy or even Happier then my words are worth it.  Happy, Sad, Negative, Angry, Grateful, Blessed…..Where do you fit in?  Be Happy, Be Grateful, Be Blessed, Be a Blessing to Someone, Be Proud of Yourself  because we ALL deserve nothing less.  A Great big Hug to Anyone whom may need one.  Thanks for reading my thoughts…..Robin Robinson

Wishes don’t always come true but NEVER stop believing!!!

Good Morning!!! Wishes do NOT always come true when you want them too but you cannot always have everything you want in life when you want it!!  Never lose hope, never stop dreaming, never stop believing that one day your dreams may come true!!

I for one look forward to my unwritten future and all of the possibilities ahead of me……do NOT dwell on the past, you are NEVER stuck in one place unless you allow it!

Look to today, to your future….to ALL of the Happy Possibilities that are still ahead of you!! YOU control your Happiness, YOU control how you React, YOU control your Future so start now or continue to Dream and Work towards what you want!!! Bucket Lists are meant to be conquered!!

Hope you all have a Wonderful Day as I shall be continuing to dream of sunshine today in hopes to scare some of the snow away!!! 😃  Thanks for reading my thoughts…….Robin Robinson

What will the day bring and what does the future hold!?!?

What will the day bring and what does the future hold?!?!??

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The possibilities are endless…..

It is up to YOU to choose and control your environment,

Your attitude

Your overall well-being!!!

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Don’t Live in fear of the unknown,

The what-ifs……..

Don’t live in your past mistakes,

Your wrong turns………

LIVE in the here and now and embrace everything that Life has to offer and that Life throws at you!!!!

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YOU have so much happiness and joy within you,

YOU have so many wonderful people in your life that care about you,

YOU have the power to CHOOSE how you LIVE…….

Have faith in your own abilities!!!

Thank you for reading my thoughts…….Robin Robinson

Let some of your pain go……..

Thursday……let some of your pain go, release yourself from the pain and negatives you have within you!!!

20150409-102912.jpgThe Choice is 100% yours…..

The Choice to start healing some of YOUR pain is up to YOU!!!!

No one else can do this for you!!!

YOUR Happiness……………YOUR Stress…..

YOUR Attitude……………YOUR Beliefs…..

YOUR Behavior……………YOUR Well-Being………

These Choices are all up to YOU!!!!!!

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Learn to be at Peace with yourself and your past, your past decisions and situations in life are done and over with so do NOT let them continue control you and predict how you are!!! Believe that you are better and that you have learned from the past………Live in the Here and Now and look to the Future!!!

Good Luck and I hope you can find Inner Peace……I hope you have a pleasant day!!!!!

Thank you for reading my thoughts……….Robin Robinson

Let some of your pain go……

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Let some of your pain go…….release yourself from the pain and negatives that you have built up within you!!!

The Choice of Letting Go is 100% yours…..

The Choice to start healing some of YOUR pain is up to YOU…..

No one else can do this for you!!!

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                     YOUR Happiness……….YOUR Stress……….

YOUR Attitude……….YOUR Beliefs……….

YOUR Behavior……….YOUR Well-Being are all up to YOU……….

Good Luck and I hope you all have a pleasant day!!!!!

Thanks for reading my thoughts………Robin Robinson

YOU are Good Enough…..

YOU are Good Enough………..LIVE Life to the fullest don’t let the opinions of others stand in the way of YOUR Happiness, of

YOUR Hopes & Dreams!!! YOU are in control of YOUR Destiny!!!!

20150407-161601.jpgBELIEVE in Yourself, do what feels best for YOU and NEVER let anyone, anything bring you down!!! If you stumble, brace yourself, collect Yourself and Move Forward without looking back!!! 😃  YOU CAN do Anything!!!!!

20150407-161638.jpgThank you for reading my thoughts……Robin Robinson