You are You..”I am Me, like me or hate me it your choice…I am ME!”

“I am Me, like me or hate me it your choice…I am ME!”
All too often “WE” just want to be accepted….”WE” want people to like us….”WE” want people to believe that we are someone who we really are NOT just to fit in so we pretend to be someone else….but why?!?!  Why live a lie?!?!  Why not be yourself in the beginning, what is wrong with the real you?!?!  Isn’t it easier to be yourself than to live a lie?!?!  I personally think it’s exhausting and too complicated to be anyone else other than ME!  Why do so many people feel they have to be accepted?!?!

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True Family and Friends will accept the “Real You”, they will Love YOU for who you really are and NOT who you try be, NOT who you think they want you to be.  They will like the real “YOU and ONLY YOU”!!!!  Do NOT pretend to be someone else, allow yourself to be True to Yourself and to others.  Those that truly matter and care for you will LOVE the “Real You”……..BE WHO YOU ARE, BE the person that you yourself can be proud of, BE the person YOU want to be……people will always love you and hate you but the only way to truly know is to BE Yourself!!  I for one Luv U for U, both inside and out!!  There is good in all of us and I LUV U for U so today I share a huge cyber hug, a smile and lots of luvins’ for anyone whom needs one!! Be True to Yourself, if You Love Yourself Others Will Too!! 🙂 Thanks for Reading my Thoughts……..Robin Robinson

Taking a moment to oneself is a good thing…….

Sometimes, taking a moment to oneself to look around and to reflect on ones life is much needed.  Often we get wrapped up in our daily lives and the problems that surround us that we forget how far we’ve come…..we forget all of the things we have overcome….we forget about the little things, the small details that make up a big part of who we are…..we forget how truly blessed we are because we are concentrating on our problems.

Don’t lose your Happiness, your Friendliness, your Inner Peace because you are wrapped up in the daily negatives of Life……remember who you are, where you come from, what you’ve already been through and conquered, remember that you are YOU and you cannot control everything just your attitude and how you let Life affect you….Life is going to happen whether you are happy or sad…..

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So take a moment to realize and appreciate your blessings and be grateful just a little more….

Ok, blah blah blah…I just cannot help myself sometimes.  No one ever knows with me what I shall write about but I write from the heart and only want the best for everyone.  If my words can ever just help one person be a little happier, feel better about themselves or just to realize that they are not alone in whatever Life throws their way then my words are well worth it despite being touchy feely and annoying to a few!!  Great big Hugs and Much Luv from me 2 ALL of you!!  Thanks for Reading my Thoughts……..Robin Robinson

Does it “Really” matter? Over-Thinking, Over-Analyzing, Over-Stressing……

We often over-think, over-analyze and over-stress about things that are beyond our control…that really do NOT matter…that are going to happen whether we like it or not, etc.  Over-thinking, Over-analyzing & Over-stressing happen far too often and steal some of our happiness each and every day!!  It becomes like an addiction that you have to find the negatives and worry about things that may not happen or things that are going to happen that you have NO control over!!  It is WAY easier to worry than to look for the positives sometimes but wouldn’t Life be Better, Happier and more joyful if we just allowed ourselves to believe that everything will work out one way or another and to realize that “Life Happens whether we stress over it or not”?!?!

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I know, blah blah blah and all too often easier said than done but I firmly believe that if we try…if we realize the negativity…if we look for more positives than negatives…if we believe that it’ll be okay one way or another…and when we realize that we shall get through whatever Life throws our way just as we have endured Life thus far that Our Lives will become Better!  Not because things didn’t happen but because we decide to look at Life and our Lives differently…..  Your life, your choice, your attitude and happiness is completely up to you!!  Just some thoughts as I watched the sun rise this morning….YOU can do whatever YOU choose to do….much Luv & Hugs  Thanks for Reading my Thoughts……Robin Robinson

Positivity – Good for You and those around you….

Hello!!!  Hello hello hello!!!  Life is complicated, Life is ever changing but with some Positivity Life can be easier to deal with for us and for those around us.  Positivity isn’t always easy and can sometimes be hard, but finding the good in every situation, finding the good within your Life and being Positive despite any issues makes Life so much easier, more pleasant and it most definitely helps those around you as well.

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I know that I am always blabbing about happy positive things but I too struggle just like everyone else at times.  I try to live by the words that I write and believe, but I too, am human…….negativity, pissy attitude and angry bitterness sometimes surface and rear it’s ugly head until I realize how I’m being or someone points it out!!  LoL  Sometimes, we ALL need a reminder of our negativity and that things aren’t as bad as they seem.  Sometimes, we need a time out and to take a deep breath and take a moment to realize why we are feeling this way and to think about “does it really matter tomorrow and will me being like this really help the situation in any way or just make it worse and negative on others whom often have nothing to do with the way I’m feeling or is there even a reason for me to be upset at this situation”?!?!?!  😊  Positivity isn’t always easy, but Positivity makes Life easier.  I hope you all have a wonderful day with lots of Positives surrounding you!!  Great Big Hugs and Lots of Luv from me to you!!  Thanks for Reading my Thoughts…….Robin Robinson

Count Your Blessings, NOT Your Problems

It is far better to Count Your Blessings than to count your problems.  We all have issues and problems but that’s okay, it’s just a part of Life.  These things should NOT consume us or define who we are.

 

There are far more important things we should be consumed with that are positives within our lives…….ourselves, our family and friends, the simple fact that we are alive yet another day to enjoy what Life has to offer and for the simple fact that Life is more enjoyable when we concentrate on the Good Within our Lives and that surrounds us!!

Do NOT let the negatives in this world make you bitter, do not let them consume you………Look and find the Positives and the Good within Life, there are far more greater things in Life to be Grateful for!!!  Hope you all have a wonderful day…..Hugs and much Luv 2 U ALL!!!  Thanks for Reading my Thoughts……..Robin Robinson

“WE” are the Directors of our own Attitudes……

So very true…….WE, YOU and I are the Directors of your own attitudes….Positively or Negatively.  Being Happy & Chipper & Positive & Smiling all the time isn’t always easy.  We all have our own faults and imperfections but when we start to realize some of our daily inner struggles and how they are affecting us and those around us it makes it easier to battle and conquer the negativity from within and that we encounter in our daily lives……

Choosing to see the Good within your lives, to see the Blessings we have been given makes positivity a little easier……..So, why not give it a try today and every day?!?!😊  Choose how to be…..WE, YOU and I are the Directors of your own attitudes!!!  Thanks for Reading my Thoughts…..Robin Robinson

20 Simple Words to Think about…..

20 Words….20 Simple Words to Think about as you go about today and every day.
When you or someone else is gossiping, spreading rumors, judging or talking about someone other than yourselves have you ever stopped to think about what is really being said, about what the truth may or may not be……….Do you or this other person actually know what the person you are talking about is going through first hand, did you ask permission to talk about them and share what you know, would you want others talking about you this way……….Would you talk about this person this same way if they were standing in front of you to hear this conversation or would you be ashamed of yourself for listening, talking or joining in on this conversation………Is this really something that matters in Your Personal Life or those that are doing the talking, does this affect you guys personally and is it really any of your business……….Words and Actions can be very hurtful…negativity, drama & gossip can eat at ones soul and be so negatively consuming that one doesn’t realize how much damage may be being done………

Before You Speak about someone else THINK, Before You Continue to Listen why not ask out loud if it really matters, Before You Continue to Listen why not choose to be a better person and excuse yourself from the conversation or simply say you don’t want to hear it as it has nothing to do with you?!?!  Thanks for Reading my Thoughts…..Robin Robinson

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