It is better to be……. Go Ahead, I Dare You!!

I believe it is much better to Be Happy, to Be Kind, to Be Positive, to Be Chipper, to Wear a Smile on my Face and to Look for the Good Within My Life than to be Sad, Bitter, Angry, Hateful, Jealous and Negative!!  None of MY Issues are YOUR problems and None of YOUR Issues are MY Problems so why take it out on others?

I do NOT believe any good can ever come from being Mean and Spiteful to others.  Words can be very hurtful and damaging despite any apologies that may or may not happen.  Some words cut deeply and wound the soul forever.  Once unkind words are spoken they may be forgiven, but, they are often hard to forget.  I do not believe any good happens from being bitter, angry and negative towards life and others but rather it causes more misery within ones own life a well as transfers to others.  Being mean only creates more negativity and doesn’t solve anything…..

I DO Believe that a lot of Good comes out of being kind and nice to others.  Niceness to others can be a powerful thing, a kind word or a simple smile & hello can brighten someone’s day.  Kindness makes you feel good from the inside out and radiates. Being polite to someone can make them feel better about themselves.  By being Happy, Positive and Nice you are choosing to be a better person, you are choosing to be the Good difference in someone’s day, you are choosing to create a happier life.  Life is easier when you decide to find the blessings to be Grateful for in every day no matter how big or small and when one starts looking at things in a more positive manner Life just gets a little easier.  Problems and challenges may not change but getting through them changes and becomes easier to deal with.

Just some thoughts as I Believe that we ALL deserve Happiness! Our lives are ALL different, we ALL have our own battles and struggles, we ALL have different choices and paths in life.  Being negative only makes oneself sad and bitter and pushes good people away.  It is up to us as individuals to choose how we let Life and Others affect us, Good or bad.  Go Ahead, Be Positive….I Dare You!! 🙂 YOU Can Do It!!!  Thanks for Reading my Thoughts…….Robin Robinson

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Start the Morning with a Smile and Thankfulness…..

Starting the Morning with a Smile and Thankfulness.  It is yet another day…..what happened yesterday is in the past….heck, whatever happened 20 minutes ago is even in the past…..the Past is the Past and there is NOTHING any of us can do to erase, change or alter it in any way.  We ALL make mistakes, we ALL have things happen within our lives that changes things, we ALL go through Love and Heartaches of various kinds….we are ALL human and process and deal with everything differently.

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Do NOT allow yourself to be swallowed up by the negatives in life, by what has happened in the past, by whatever mistakes you have made, by whatever you have had to endure.  Have Thankfulness in your Heart that you have yet another day……..YOU, ME, WE….WE all have a Choice each and every day so today, tomorrow and every day make the Choices, Changes and take the Chances that make you Happy and help you move forward.  Happiness comes from within and no one can “make” you Happy except Yourself!!

No matter what you are going through,

No matter what you have been through,

No matter what your struggles are inward and out,

No matter what….Find Thankfulness…Find the things in life you have to be grateful for.

No matter what….Find what makes you Happy.

You are better than you think and You have the Power Within to make any changes needed.  Thanks for Reading my Thoughts……Robin Robinson

Experience, Experiment, Expectations…. Exp.+Exp.+Exp.=’s whatever you allow it to equal

GOOD MORNING!!! Here’s a picture/saying to get your brain thinking this morning.

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Life is most definitely full of expectations, experiences and experimenting……  Never give up, always push forward and never ever stop dreaming and setting new goals for yourself!!  Don’t just live your live, LIVE YOUR LIFE!! 😃 Don’t let the worries of yesterday and the little things in life that don’t really matter in the long run drag you down.  You are better than that and you deserve more but YOU have to decide to Live Your Life and YOU have to decide to make the changes from your own life experiences, your life expectations and your life’s experiments…….

Life shouldn’t be about what you have materialistically but what you hold in your Heart, about how you’ve Lived Your Life, and about how you’ve Enjoyed the Ride Leaving Behind NO Regrets, Just Lessons Learned.  Do more of what makes you happy…. Exp.+Exp.+Exp.  Much Luv and Great Big Hugs from me to you….  Thanks for Reading my Thoughts……Robin Robinson

I write these words with a heavy heart for the people of our Great Country, the United States of America……

My Thoughts ~ I write these words with a heavy heart for the people of our Great Country, the United States of America.  Maybe you agree, maybe you disagree, maybe my words will make you think a little differently ~ these are my thoughts:

So much negativity and drama going on around us in this World and within our own Country.  It deeply saddens me, upsets me and disappoints me in many ways but yet I cannot live my Life with negativity and hatred, I cannot live in fear and I just cannot let it consume me.  Yet, it saddens me greatly at how it is affecting so many who don’t realize it and who thrive on the negativity and continue to push segregation from within……we are ALL Human Beings none of us is better than the other!!

I wish more people could learn to agree to disagree and yet still get along.  What has happened in the PAST is in the Past and there’s nothing anyone can do to change it, it’s our History.  You have to learn from it and move forward and attempt to make things better for yourself and those around you!!  Dwelling on the negatives of yesterday eats at your soul and draws more negative energy rather than producing positives.  Destroying parts of History and Separating ourselves from within is such a sad negative.

I completely agree that we ALL have the right to Freedom of Speech but yet when it comes to Patriotism and Respect I feel it trumps it.  There’s a time and a place for it, a positive and constructive way to do it……I would never sit down in a Court of Law when asked to rise as the judge enters, I would never stay sitting down while others stand for the Canadian Anthem or any other Country out of respect let alone my OWN County!!! Out of knowing and understanding a small fraction of our History, the Sacrifices and the Meanings behind why these have been traditions for so long, for knowing that many have made and still DO make sacrifices and that so many have and still are giving the ultimate sacrifice every day.  These Sacrifices allow us to continue to have our Freedoms, the Freedoms in which we still have today that many others around the World do not.

We ALL have a Heart, we ALL Bleed Red.  Our ethnicity, our skin color, our religious beliefs, what our ancestors did, what our parents did, what we ourselves have done in the past and who we voted for or support shouldn’t matter.  We are ALL the same on the inside.  We need to learn to get along just as we teach our kids to do with their siblings and others at school, as we even teach our dogs to get along with other dogs and cats…..why should we accept anything less from ourselves?!?!  SHAME on us all for allowing this to happen!!

In the end, in the final end we ALL die the same….our Hearts stop beating and we go cold….we go cold as our souls leave our bodies…..how does this NOT prove that we are all the same, that we are indeed equals?!?!  Stop punishing each other because of our differences and because of what happened years ago….

We should be Uniting and becoming stronger as a Nation instead of this pissing match of who’s better than whom or who’s ancestors had it worse so therefore deserve more and so on……  We are ALL human beings, we are all equals and if we started acting like equals instead of dividing ourselves like grade schoolers afraid of getting “Cooties” from the other girls or boys we would become a much stronger and happier America once again. UNITED States of America needs to stay “United”.

If you were in a car crash right in front of me and you needed help I would NOT sit idle by and just watch because YOU were of a different color or because you supported a different candidate or because you had different religious beliefs or because you were a person who Serves & Protects or even because you were a prison inmate on a transport bus who may have murdered someone!!  I would rush to your side and still help you as best I could no matter what because I have a heart, just like you do!!!  I believe we are ALL equals and deserve to be treated with Kindness, Compassion & Love no matter what the circumstances just as so many Men & Women of our Great Country do every single day in many varying capacities!!!  We don’t have to be born here, we don’t have to have the same religious or political beliefs, we don’t have to have the same skin color or same ancestry DNA to be an American, that’s what makes this Country so Great!

I am NOT writing this to start a debate or go back and forth with anyone…..this is NOT intended to start ANY arguments about different beliefs and ways of thinking.  This is MY Freedom of Speech and my thought as of late.  So Please, out of respect if you wish to leave a negative comment, wish to debate or if I simply pissed you off and you want to let me know it…..Please DON’T do it on here.  Yes, you too have Freedom of Speech rights, I’m simply requesting you address your grievances with me directly and elsewhere. Thank You….     Thanks for Reading my Thoughts……Robin Robinson ~ a Proud American Military Mom 8-23-17

You are You..”I am Me, like me or hate me it your choice…I am ME!”

“I am Me, like me or hate me it your choice…I am ME!”
All too often “WE” just want to be accepted….”WE” want people to like us….”WE” want people to believe that we are someone who we really are NOT just to fit in so we pretend to be someone else….but why?!?!  Why live a lie?!?!  Why not be yourself in the beginning, what is wrong with the real you?!?!  Isn’t it easier to be yourself than to live a lie?!?!  I personally think it’s exhausting and too complicated to be anyone else other than ME!  Why do so many people feel they have to be accepted?!?!

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True Family and Friends will accept the “Real You”, they will Love YOU for who you really are and NOT who you try be, NOT who you think they want you to be.  They will like the real “YOU and ONLY YOU”!!!!  Do NOT pretend to be someone else, allow yourself to be True to Yourself and to others.  Those that truly matter and care for you will LOVE the “Real You”……..BE WHO YOU ARE, BE the person that you yourself can be proud of, BE the person YOU want to be……people will always love you and hate you but the only way to truly know is to BE Yourself!!  I for one Luv U for U, both inside and out!!  There is good in all of us and I LUV U for U so today I share a huge cyber hug, a smile and lots of luvins’ for anyone whom needs one!! Be True to Yourself, if You Love Yourself Others Will Too!! 🙂 Thanks for Reading my Thoughts……..Robin Robinson

Taking a moment to oneself is a good thing…….

Sometimes, taking a moment to oneself to look around and to reflect on ones life is much needed.  Often we get wrapped up in our daily lives and the problems that surround us that we forget how far we’ve come…..we forget all of the things we have overcome….we forget about the little things, the small details that make up a big part of who we are…..we forget how truly blessed we are because we are concentrating on our problems.

Don’t lose your Happiness, your Friendliness, your Inner Peace because you are wrapped up in the daily negatives of Life……remember who you are, where you come from, what you’ve already been through and conquered, remember that you are YOU and you cannot control everything just your attitude and how you let Life affect you….Life is going to happen whether you are happy or sad…..

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So take a moment to realize and appreciate your blessings and be grateful just a little more….

Ok, blah blah blah…I just cannot help myself sometimes.  No one ever knows with me what I shall write about but I write from the heart and only want the best for everyone.  If my words can ever just help one person be a little happier, feel better about themselves or just to realize that they are not alone in whatever Life throws their way then my words are well worth it despite being touchy feely and annoying to a few!!  Great big Hugs and Much Luv from me 2 ALL of you!!  Thanks for Reading my Thoughts……..Robin Robinson

Does it “Really” matter? Over-Thinking, Over-Analyzing, Over-Stressing……

We often over-think, over-analyze and over-stress about things that are beyond our control…that really do NOT matter…that are going to happen whether we like it or not, etc.  Over-thinking, Over-analyzing & Over-stressing happen far too often and steal some of our happiness each and every day!!  It becomes like an addiction that you have to find the negatives and worry about things that may not happen or things that are going to happen that you have NO control over!!  It is WAY easier to worry than to look for the positives sometimes but wouldn’t Life be Better, Happier and more joyful if we just allowed ourselves to believe that everything will work out one way or another and to realize that “Life Happens whether we stress over it or not”?!?!

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I know, blah blah blah and all too often easier said than done but I firmly believe that if we try…if we realize the negativity…if we look for more positives than negatives…if we believe that it’ll be okay one way or another…and when we realize that we shall get through whatever Life throws our way just as we have endured Life thus far that Our Lives will become Better!  Not because things didn’t happen but because we decide to look at Life and our Lives differently…..  Your life, your choice, your attitude and happiness is completely up to you!!  Just some thoughts as I watched the sun rise this morning….YOU can do whatever YOU choose to do….much Luv & Hugs  Thanks for Reading my Thoughts……Robin Robinson