It is better to be……. Go Ahead, I Dare You!!

I believe it is much better to Be Happy, to Be Kind, to Be Positive, to Be Chipper, to Wear a Smile on my Face and to Look for the Good Within My Life than to be Sad, Bitter, Angry, Hateful, Jealous and Negative!!  None of MY Issues are YOUR problems and None of YOUR Issues are MY Problems so why take it out on others?

I do NOT believe any good can ever come from being Mean and Spiteful to others.  Words can be very hurtful and damaging despite any apologies that may or may not happen.  Some words cut deeply and wound the soul forever.  Once unkind words are spoken they may be forgiven, but, they are often hard to forget.  I do not believe any good happens from being bitter, angry and negative towards life and others but rather it causes more misery within ones own life a well as transfers to others.  Being mean only creates more negativity and doesn’t solve anything…..

I DO Believe that a lot of Good comes out of being kind and nice to others.  Niceness to others can be a powerful thing, a kind word or a simple smile & hello can brighten someone’s day.  Kindness makes you feel good from the inside out and radiates. Being polite to someone can make them feel better about themselves.  By being Happy, Positive and Nice you are choosing to be a better person, you are choosing to be the Good difference in someone’s day, you are choosing to create a happier life.  Life is easier when you decide to find the blessings to be Grateful for in every day no matter how big or small and when one starts looking at things in a more positive manner Life just gets a little easier.  Problems and challenges may not change but getting through them changes and becomes easier to deal with.

Just some thoughts as I Believe that we ALL deserve Happiness! Our lives are ALL different, we ALL have our own battles and struggles, we ALL have different choices and paths in life.  Being negative only makes oneself sad and bitter and pushes good people away.  It is up to us as individuals to choose how we let Life and Others affect us, Good or bad.  Go Ahead, Be Positive….I Dare You!! 🙂 YOU Can Do It!!!  Thanks for Reading my Thoughts…….Robin Robinson

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Family-Unconditional Love-Forgiving for Inner Peace-No Regrets

We ALL have ups and downs, we ALL have good days and bad days, we ALL have disagreements with loved ones, but at the end of the day we should Love unconditionally.  None of us is perfect, we all make mistakes and we ALL need to live with NO regrets, NO I should have said, NO words left unspoken!!!!  In the blink of an eye we can lose a loved one, in the blink of an eye we may be the ones with regret because we didn’t take the time to try……..

Time goes by quickly and before you realize just how much time has passed you can miss out on so many things that should have been enjoyed as a family because of disagreements unreconciled.  NO Regrets, Forgive to heal your heart, Forget about the Past and what cannot be changed, Fix the broken relationships before it’s too late!!!  Tell them you LOVE them and just agree to disagree and move forward instead of being stuck in the past!!

The LOVE is still there, the bonds last a lifetime but stubbornness sometimes gets in the way……..release the negatives, release the past and begin to heal from the inside out, begin to heal any broken relationships, begin to heal for yourself even if they do not accept it, they may not be ready.  At least you can live with NO Regrets because at least you tried…………  Great Big Hugs to ALL my Family and Friends and may you all find peace from within and some unconditional love.  Thanks for Reading my Thoughts…….Robin Robinson

October 2, 2017 – Heartache & Devastation

Yesterday was an emotional day…..I live about an hour outside of Las Vegas, I actually live where the shooter was currently living (I did not know him).  I know people whom were there when the shooting took place.  Thankfully they are all safe but so many others were not so lucky.  It breaks my heart that this happened!!!  It will forever change so many lives!!  It is such a different World that we live in compared to when I was a little girl.  My thoughts and prayers go out to ALL involved in this horrendous act and my continued prayers to others around the World still dealing with and affected by other disasters as well.  I am still in awe and shock and emotionally unsure how to process it….I wish I wasn’t such an emotional sap.  May we all once again learn and grow from this tragedy…..we all BLEED the SAME……we all have HEARTS and people United and helped eachother as it should be!!  May this make us Stronger and not bitter……so many emotions and thoughts….May we Hug our Loved Ones a little tighter, may we Fix any wrongs and relationships before it’s too late, may we have a chance to say I Love You, may we live with NO Regrets!!!!  Thanks for Reading my Thoughts…..Robin Robinson 

 

I write these words with a heavy heart for the people of our Great Country, the United States of America……

My Thoughts ~ I write these words with a heavy heart for the people of our Great Country, the United States of America.  Maybe you agree, maybe you disagree, maybe my words will make you think a little differently ~ these are my thoughts:

So much negativity and drama going on around us in this World and within our own Country.  It deeply saddens me, upsets me and disappoints me in many ways but yet I cannot live my Life with negativity and hatred, I cannot live in fear and I just cannot let it consume me.  Yet, it saddens me greatly at how it is affecting so many who don’t realize it and who thrive on the negativity and continue to push segregation from within……we are ALL Human Beings none of us is better than the other!!

I wish more people could learn to agree to disagree and yet still get along.  What has happened in the PAST is in the Past and there’s nothing anyone can do to change it, it’s our History.  You have to learn from it and move forward and attempt to make things better for yourself and those around you!!  Dwelling on the negatives of yesterday eats at your soul and draws more negative energy rather than producing positives.  Destroying parts of History and Separating ourselves from within is such a sad negative.

I completely agree that we ALL have the right to Freedom of Speech but yet when it comes to Patriotism and Respect I feel it trumps it.  There’s a time and a place for it, a positive and constructive way to do it……I would never sit down in a Court of Law when asked to rise as the judge enters, I would never stay sitting down while others stand for the Canadian Anthem or any other Country out of respect let alone my OWN County!!! Out of knowing and understanding a small fraction of our History, the Sacrifices and the Meanings behind why these have been traditions for so long, for knowing that many have made and still DO make sacrifices and that so many have and still are giving the ultimate sacrifice every day.  These Sacrifices allow us to continue to have our Freedoms, the Freedoms in which we still have today that many others around the World do not.

We ALL have a Heart, we ALL Bleed Red.  Our ethnicity, our skin color, our religious beliefs, what our ancestors did, what our parents did, what we ourselves have done in the past and who we voted for or support shouldn’t matter.  We are ALL the same on the inside.  We need to learn to get along just as we teach our kids to do with their siblings and others at school, as we even teach our dogs to get along with other dogs and cats…..why should we accept anything less from ourselves?!?!  SHAME on us all for allowing this to happen!!

In the end, in the final end we ALL die the same….our Hearts stop beating and we go cold….we go cold as our souls leave our bodies…..how does this NOT prove that we are all the same, that we are indeed equals?!?!  Stop punishing each other because of our differences and because of what happened years ago….

We should be Uniting and becoming stronger as a Nation instead of this pissing match of who’s better than whom or who’s ancestors had it worse so therefore deserve more and so on……  We are ALL human beings, we are all equals and if we started acting like equals instead of dividing ourselves like grade schoolers afraid of getting “Cooties” from the other girls or boys we would become a much stronger and happier America once again. UNITED States of America needs to stay “United”.

If you were in a car crash right in front of me and you needed help I would NOT sit idle by and just watch because YOU were of a different color or because you supported a different candidate or because you had different religious beliefs or because you were a person who Serves & Protects or even because you were a prison inmate on a transport bus who may have murdered someone!!  I would rush to your side and still help you as best I could no matter what because I have a heart, just like you do!!!  I believe we are ALL equals and deserve to be treated with Kindness, Compassion & Love no matter what the circumstances just as so many Men & Women of our Great Country do every single day in many varying capacities!!!  We don’t have to be born here, we don’t have to have the same religious or political beliefs, we don’t have to have the same skin color or same ancestry DNA to be an American, that’s what makes this Country so Great!

I am NOT writing this to start a debate or go back and forth with anyone…..this is NOT intended to start ANY arguments about different beliefs and ways of thinking.  This is MY Freedom of Speech and my thought as of late.  So Please, out of respect if you wish to leave a negative comment, wish to debate or if I simply pissed you off and you want to let me know it…..Please DON’T do it on here.  Yes, you too have Freedom of Speech rights, I’m simply requesting you address your grievances with me directly and elsewhere. Thank You….     Thanks for Reading my Thoughts……Robin Robinson ~ a Proud American Military Mom 8-23-17

Life…Precious Life is taken for Granted by us all! Hug your loved ones, say “I Love You” and Live with NO Regrets…. (Words today from a heavy heart.)

~Time goes by…words go unsaid…arguments go unsettled…forgiveness and agreeing to disagree doesn’t always happen despite the love that is still between you…hugs and I Love You’s fade away because you think they’ll always be there or because you’re too stubborn and think it shows weakness…many words go unspoken that would heal your heart and possibly there’s as well…things go unsaid because you just assume they already know how special they are and that you assume they know you love them because you do……

~Life…Life is all too often taken for granted by us ALL!!!  Hug your babies tight and often…tell your parents or those that raised you that they are special and that you appreciate all the sacrifices they have endured…tell your friends and family how much they mean to you as it is often them whom you lean on and look to for guidance off and on throughout the years and vice versa…tell your spouse or significant other I Love You everyday followed by a kiss or two whenever possible…..

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~NO REGRETS…. Live with NO REGRETS towards your Loved Ones!  I’ve said it before and I’ll keep saying it…”regrets just eat away at your heart and soul”.  Fix the Wrongs…..Mend the Hearts…..Say I’m Sorry…..Forgive for yourself.  DON’T Leave the words or actions for tomorrow, next week or for another time because NOW may be the Last chance you have!!  I myself am guilty of all of the above, just as we all are whether we realize it or not.  Forgiving and trying to mend a relationship isn’t weakness, it isn’t giving in to them, it isn’t saying you were wrong or right it is simply just attempting to fix a piece of your heart.  It actually takes great courage and we are often actually afraid of rejection, of what someone may say or how they will react but as long as you try…as long as you truly did your best then at least you tried.  As long as you know in your heart you did your best there’s NO Regrets on your end regardless of the outcome!!  You can have piece of mind instead of regrets and I wish I had’s……..

~LIFE can be gone in the blink of an eye, you or you’re loved one may be gone and you didn’t get to tell them that you truly care, that you love them despite any issues of the past, you didn’t get to say I Love You or give them a hug from the hears…….NO REGRETS!! Love to me is unconditional because none of us is perfect, we all have issues from time to time and often we take some of our own issues out on the ones we love and push them away without meaning to…LIVE WITH NO REGRETS TOWARDS YOUR LOVED ONES!!!  I LUV U…Each and Every One of You even if we have never met!!!  Sending Big Hugs & Much Luv 2 You ALL, especially those whom have recently lost a loved one…. Thanks for Reading my Thoughts……Robin Robinson

Hate, Bitterness & Grudges suck the Happiness and Peace out our Souls!!

Hate, Bitterness & Grudges suck the Happiness and Peace out of our Souls!!  Do you have Negativity built up that is eating at you, that sometimes makes you sad, angry, bitter and/or negative towards others?!?!  What do you carry inside of you?!?!  Letting it go is often easier said than done and typically takes a lot of patience and practice but it sure is a great burden and weight lifted once you can release it!!!

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Letting go, Forgiving, Releasing the Negativity and Finding Peace within Yourself are for YOU, for your own happiness and peace from within….it is NOT for anyone else!!  Just because you forgive someone, just because you let go of whatever angers you and makes you bitter doesn’t mean you won’t remember and will forget the whole thing…..it just means that you have released it’s hold on YOU.  You may never forget it, but you will have inner peace by accepting what happened and moving forward into better things without the negative chain from what you cannot change from the past.  Accept the past, learn from it, move forward and do better in the future!!  This WORLD needs more Love and way less Hate and Negativity!!  💖Hugs and Luv 2 U All!!!  Thanks for Reading my Thoughts…….Robin Robinson

Rise Above the Negatives, YOU Deserve to be Happy…..

Good Morning!!  I’ve has some deep thoughts as life has so many challenges for each and every one of us.

Things happen beyond our control, some are very painful and other things are just a part of life’s lessons learned as we grow and follow our life’s path.  Things happen…. Things change…. Things are sometimes complicated.  We all have different paths in life and we all see things from different points of view.  Life affects us ALL so very differently.  But, it is how we let it affect us, how we learn and grow from these things that often matter the most.

  • It is up to each of us Individually to figure out what’s best for ourselves at any given time.
  • It is up to each of us to learn from mistakes and to move forward.  It is up to each of us to forgive, not for those that have wronged us but for ourselves and our own inner peace.
  • It is up to each of us to change our own Paths to better ourselves and our lives.  It is up to each of us to learn and grow and to strive to be a better and happier person.
  • It is up to each of us to Make the Best out of the Lives we have……

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Don’t lose yourself in dwelling on the negatives….. Don’t allow the opinions or negativity of others drag you down….. Rise above with your head held high, Be proud of who YOU are, Live each day to be better than the last, Let the worries and negatives of yesterday stay behind you and in the past…… 

One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned in 41 years and try to live by each and every day…. “You can’t always control what happens around you, but you CAN control how you let it affect you!!”  Live and Learn from mistakes and from others and don’t lose YOURSELF in worrying and trying to please others!  YOU are a wonderful person, YOU are stronger than you realize and YOU deserve to be happy!  Much Luv, Huge Hugs plus an extra one or two for anyone needing an extra one today!!  Smile, Deep Breath and Hope you all Have a Great Day……….  Thanks for Reading my Thoughts……..Robin Robinson